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Monday, April 23, 2012

CAN A WOMAN REALLY THINK LIKE A MAN?


Steve Harvey’s best-seller, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, is now a big-screen movie with an all-star cast. The movie Think Like A Man will do well in theaters when it’s released on April 20, because the one thing black women have in common is trifling black men.
But who raised men to be what they are today?
If women really want to better understand men, we need only to look inside ourselves since men sprang from our loins. The problem women have in relationships has more to do with our way of thinking than with theirs. Most women go into relationships with an unrealistic list of expectations and demands — when all a man wants is sex and a hot meal when he comes home from work.
Women are quick to demand that men put a ring on it after the dating grace period is up. But what are women doing to earn that ring? Steve Harvey was right: men need loyalty and respect from women. And in return, women will get that protector and provider of their dreams. Thinking like a man won’t solve your relationship problems if you refuse to act like a lady.

Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Sneak Peek: Oprah interviews Bobbi Kristina

Oprah gives viewers a sneak preview of her sit-down interview with Whitney Houston’s family; her daughter, Bobbi Kristina; her brother, Gary Houston; and her sister-in-law, Patricia Houston. The special episode of “Oprah’s Next Chapter” airs on Oprah’s struggling OWN Network next Sunday at 9/8c.
Bobbi Kristina shares personal memories of her mom and how she would like the iconic superstar to be remembered.
Although Oprah’s TV special gives the impression that Whitney’s surviving daughter, Bobbi, is doing well, the current issue of the National Enquirer (on newsstands now) tells a different story. The March 12, 2012 cover features new photos of Bobbi Kristina smoking a big bowl of weed through a bong. It’s doubtful that Oprah asked if Bobbi Kristina was going to a drug rehab anytime soon.

If Jermaine Jackson did have an affair with Whitney Houston, she was one of many women

The late Pop icon Whitney Houston hasn’t been in the ground 3 weeks and already Jermaine Jackson is trying to capitalize off of her. Jermaine was one of the members of the famous 1970s sibling singing group the Jackson 5, fronted by Michael Jackson.
Tales of the older Jackson brothers bedding their groupies were legendary back in the 1970s. But Jermaine was the biggest whore of all his brothers. In his book, You are Not Alone: Michael, Through A Brother’s Eyes, released by HarperCollins last year, Jermaine mentioned Whitney and the “feelings” he had for her, but there was no mention of any romantic affair.
 
 57-year-old Jermaine, who is seen above shopping in Malibu, CA with his third wife, Halima Rashid, has 5 children, including his sons, Jafaar, left, and Jermajesty, from his second marriage to Alejandra Jackson. Alejandra also has 2 sons by Jermaine’s younger brother, Randy.

Jermaine’s first wife, Hazel Gordy, daughter of Motown founder Berry Gordy, knew Jermaine was a slut when she married him in 1973. Jermaine was rumored to be sleeping with groupies even before they were married.
Legend has it that Hazel pressured Jermaine into marrying her, thinking he would change his whorish ways for her. We know that magical thinking never works in real life, but Hazel apparently didn’t.
Jermaine and Hazel divorced in 1988 — 4 years after his supposed affair with Whitney. Expect Jermaine to release another book about this alleged affair now that Whitney has passed and she is not around to dispute any of the details.

Kim Kardashian’s ex: Our wedding guests should get their damn gifts back!



The Internet is buzzing about Kim Kardashian’s generous $200,000 “donation” to charity, which is supposedly double the value of the wedding gifts she received.
But anyone who runs a business knows that charitable donations can be deducted from your income tax. So she really didn’t lose a penny.
Kardashian’s soon-to-be ex-husband, NBA star Kris Humphries, says Kim’s charitable donation is not good enough. He thinks she should give the gifts back too. Humphries was duped by Kim into marrying her for a made-for-TV wedding. The marriage ended 72 days later — after the taping of her reality show wrapped.

"Kris Humphries believes … Kim Kardashian has NO RIGHT to keep the gifts from their doomed wedding … insisting every single item should be returned to the guests.
Sources close to the NBA star tell us … Kris is adamant that gifts from a fraudulent wedding should be returned.
We’re told Kris gives Kim props for cutting a check for twice the value of the gifts and giving it to charity … but he feels Kim should have made the contribution IN ADDITION to returning the gifts.
Kris has told friends he feels the guests were duped into spending their hard-earned cash on wedding gifts … claiming Kim never intended to give their marriage a real chance.
Kim insists she truly loved Kris and was legitimately heartbroken when their relationship fell apart.

Monday, March 5, 2012

WHY DO MEN CHEAT ON THEIR WIVES?

 Why do men cheat on their wives? Surprisingly 92% of men say it is not primary about sex. The majority of cheating men says it is an emotional disconnection. They feel under appreciated, they feel lack of thoughtful gestures and they feel like they do not get the attention that they need from their wife. If they do not feel appreciated they start to feel insecure about them selves.
If somebody else, another woman, are willing to make him feel good about him self, make him feel appreciated, admired and valuable, make him feel like he is the best person in the world there is a risk that man will start a relationship with this other woman. We have this "picture" of men being strong and not very emotional; men are in fact very emotional beings.
 The number one reason why do men cheat on their wives;
1. Emotional disconnection from their wife.
Men loves to win, if you watch them at a football game they are excited as long as their team are winning, they are happy, cheerful and positive. If they are losing, if it is a blow out and they feel like they can not win they will leave or turn the TV off. It is similar in a relationship if they feel like they can not win with you, if they feel they can not make you happy, if they feel like they do not do anything right they turn off. The more we give the more we will get in return. So if he tries to make dinner but burn the burgers, appreciate him for the effort. Let him feel like he is winning.
Now, do not get me wrong, it is never your fault if your husband cheats. Cheating is wrong and it is a decision he has to make, he has to make a choice at one point, if he is going to cross the line or not. This just answer the question: Why do men cheat on their wives?
If you suspect him cheating do not sit around and wait for him to come and tell you. Only 7% of husbands tell their wives about the affair before being caught. So if you suspect him cheating you need to find out the truth yourself and catch him doing it.
Every husband is different and there are more answers to the question: Why do men cheat on their wives?
 

Self Gratification - There are many men that need to fulfill their narcissistic nature by selfishly stepping out on their relationship in order to meet their personal needs.  I actually had a friend that had an insatiable sexual desire and in his words, “his wife would never be able to satisfy those needs!”  Sounds crazy, but true story!
 Think they are not hurting anyone - Not hurting anyone!  I know, I know, but it’s the way a lot of men think. If their wife doesn’t find out about it, then it’s not hurting her.  Well, what most men that keep up their cheating ways find out is that the truth usually comes to light at some point.  And guess who always gets hurt?
 Unhappy in Marriage – A marriage is a mutual agreement between two people and the truth is sometimes that agreement is not upheld and things start to be taken for granted.  In the case where the wife stops doing the little things and takes her husband for granted, a husband may attach himself to someone else willing to give him that attention we all need. It’s not right, but it is how it happens!
 Peer Pressure – Many men like to convey a macho image around their friends, and their usually is that one friend that outs that pressure on a man to “pursue” that that co-worker that is showing interest! Surprisingly enough, so many men crumble to that “manly” pressure that’s that! Shameful, but once again true!
 Opportunity – It has been stated that the better looking your man is, the more likely he is to cheat at some point.  Why? Well, the more times he is confronted with the temptation, the more chances he has to cheat.  Its simple math, so combine all the factors above with so many opportunities, and sometimes that perfect storm comes along and crumbles even the strongest will.
Here are some of the reasons that bring about this unfortunate situation.

1. Marital upheavals
There is hardly any marriage that does not have its own ups and downs – it just the intensity that differs. It will be easier for a man to go astray during those low times in a relationship. Many men, some of who would never even imagine of cheating under normal circumstances, will be very vulnerable during those times when things are not going well between them and their wives. Although the low moments are inevitable, you should strive to minimize their occurrence and make them last for the shortest time possible.

2. Communication breakdown
No relationship will thrive when there is barely any communication between the partners. If you want to maintain the emotional bond between you, you should ensure that you talk with your partner, not just to him. There are very many things to talk about, including your plans and the dreams you share. Discuss all issues that relate to your family. When there is a communication breakdown in your marriage, it will be easier for your husband to go astray and start a relationship with another woman.
 3. Complacency
You will hardly see a woman who takes herself for granted during the early days of building a relationship. However, as you get used to each other in a relationship, you can easily take many things for granted. If you fall into the rut of everyday activities and you do not seem to give your husband as much attention as you used to, you will leave room for other interested women.
Can you remember when you made an effort to look great just for him? Do you try to see that he gets his favorite meals in the way that he likes them? If you no longer engage in things that make your husband happy, he will not be interested in spending time in your company. Ensure that your husband enjoys your company and he will not look at another woman.
 
 4. Problems in your sex lives
Sexual issue does not just have to do with its lack in the marriage. It may as well be that he is interested in more sex than you are willing to give him. It could also be that he would like to spice things up instead of the same method all the time. You should be free to discuss such issues with him and explore reasonable ones together. Otherwise he may try to find someone with whom to experiment.


FORMER CHAMPION BOXER MIKE TYSON AND FAMILY

 Michael Gerard "Mike" Tyson (also known as Malik Abdul Aziz) (born June 30, 1966) is a retired American professional boxer. Tyson is a former undisputed heavyweight champion of the world and holds the record as the youngest boxer to win the WBC, WBA and IBF heavyweight titles, he was 20 years, 4 months and 22 days old. Tyson won his first 19 professional bouts by knockout, with 12 of them occurring in the first round. He won the WBC title in 1986 after defeating Trevor Berbick by a TKO in the second round. In 1987, Tyson added the WBA and IBF titles after defeating Janeth Smith and Tony Tucker. He was the first heavyweight boxer to simultaneously hold and only Heavyweight to individually unify the WBA, WBC and IBF titles.
 In 1988, Tyson became the lineal champion when he knocked out Michael Spinks in the first 91 seconds of the fight. Tyson successfully defended the world heavyweight championship nine times, including victories over Larry Holmes and Frank Bruno. Tyson lost his titles to 42-to-1 underdog James "Buster" Douglas on February 11, 1990, in Tokyo, Japan, by a knockout in round 10. Tyson continued in his quest to regain the titles, defeating Donovan Ruddock twice in 1991. Tyson was then scheduled to take on the undisputed heavyweight champion Evander Holyfield but pulled out due to injury.
 In 1992, Tyson was convicted of raping Desiree Washington, for which he was sentenced to six years in prison but was released after serving three years. After being released from prison in 1995, he engaged in a series of comeback fights. In 1996, Tyson won the WBC and WBA titles after defeating Frank Bruno and Bruce Seldon by knockout. After being stripped of the WBC title, Tyson lost his WBA crown to Evander Holyfield in November, 1996 by an 11th round TKO. Their 1997 rematch ended when Tyson was disqualified for biting off part of Holyfield's ear.

In 2002, he fought for the world heavyweight title at the age of 35, losing by knockout to Lennox Lewis. Tyson retired from professional boxing in 2006 after he was knocked out in consecutive matches against Danny Williams and Kevin McBride. Tyson declared bankruptcy in 2003, despite receiving over US$30 million for several of his fights and $300 million during his career.
Throughout his career, Tyson became well known for his ferocious and intimidating boxing style as well as his controversial behavior both inside and outside the ring. Tyson is considered to have been one of the best heavyweight boxers of all time. He is ranked No. 16 on The Ring's list of 100 greatest punchers of all time.
 Mike Tyson married Lakiha Spicer, in May, 2009 after years of dating. The marriage came only 10 days after the death of their daughter Exodus when her neck was accidentally wrapped in the cord of an exercise machine. Mike has five other children before Spicer, and they have two other together (total of 8 for Tyson). Tyson and Spicer married La Bella Wedding Chapel, inside the Las Vegas Hilton in a quick ceremony at 10pm on a Saturday night. This was the third marriage for Tyson, who famously married Robin Givens in 1987 (the divorce of course led to Givens going on national TV and admitting that she was afraid of him). Iron Mike married Monica Turner in 1997, which lasted 5 years.

Mike Tyson attended the Teen Choice Awards in Universal City with his family (L to R) son Amir, 12, daughter Rayna, 13, and daughter Mikey, 19. Amir and Rayna’s mom is pediatrician Monica Turner, who divorced Tyson in 2003. Tyson has a total of 7 kids (Exodus, 4, died in June).
Tyson and family


Tyson and his wife Lakiha Spicer
Mike & Evander Hollyfield


Kirk Cameron calls homosexuality ‘unnatural’; CNN’s Piers Morgan says Kirk has the right to his opinion


Former child star Kirk Cameron has once again riled gay advocacy groups with his controversial statements on gay marriage and homosexuality.
Appearing on CNN’s Piers Morgan talk show on Friday, the 41-year-old former ‘Growing Pains‘ star said homosexuality was “unnatural” and “detrimental” to society.
“I think that it’s detrimental and ultimately destructive to so many of the foundations of civilization,” Cameron told Morgan.
Cameron, who is an Evangelical Christian, also defended the institution of marriage:
“Marriage is almost as old as dirt, and it was defined in the garden between Adam and Eve. One man, one woman for life till death do you part. So I would never attempt to try to redefine marriage. And I don’t think anyone else should either,” Cameron said. “So do I support the idea of gay marriage? No, I don’t.” Source
Opinions are protected by the First Amendment of the United States Constitution. Whether gays like it or not, Cameron’s opinions on homosexuality are his opinions and he has the right to express them — according to Morgan.
Morgan called Cameron “brave” and “honest” when he was interviewed by celebrity gossip website TMZ.com, over the weekend.

“I felt that he was honest to what he believed,” Morgan told TMZ when he was asked to weigh in on the controversy.
“He was pretty brave to say what he said…” added Morgan.
This is not the first time Cameron has invoked furor with his opinions on homosexuality and gay marriage. A simple Google check will return dozens of other instances when Cameron has expressed anti-gay sentiments in the past. So what makes this time any different?
Probably because Cameron used the word “unnatural” to define gay sex. But is he wrong?
Traditionalists argue that gay sex is unnatural, since that particular sex act does not produce babies. After all, we were placed here on earth to give birth to future generations which ensures the survival of the human species. Gay sex does not ensure the survival of the human species.

Oprah Lands 1st Interview With Whitney Houston’s Daughter


The NY Daily News reports that struggling talk show titan Oprah has landed the first interview with Whitney Houston’s daughter, Bobbi Kristina Brown.
According to the NY Daily News, the 18-year-old will share her “personal memories” of her mother and how she’d like her to be remembered. Oprah also sat down with Whitney’s most trusted confidants, her brother Gary Houston and sister-in-law, Pat. The interviews took place in Atlanta, where Bobbi Kristina once shared a townhouse with her mother.
Winfrey’s team also said the family addressed the “rumors and speculation” that have surfaced in the wake of Houston’s death on the eve of the Grammy Awards in February.
Houston was found unresponsive in the bathroom of her suite at the Beverly Hilton in Beverly Hills, Calif., on Feb. 11, the night before the Grammys.
The special will air on Oprah’s OWN cable network on March 11.
Oprah’s crown has been tarnished by poor ratings and traitors who jumped ship from her failing network OWN. In the past, the media seized upon the term “Oprahfication”, to describe Oprah’s powerful influence on pop culture. But it seems that Oprah has lost her magic touch.
Oprah walked away from her syndicated talk show Oprah, in May 2011 on the advice of a terminally ill boy who told her to end her show’s successful run at an even number of years: 25.
Now, the 58-year-old media Guru is trying to save her struggling OWN network by doing more of the face-to-face interviews that made her famous.

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

HONEY AND CINNAMON AS A MEDICATION



Ayurvedic as well as Yunani medicine have been using honey as a vital medicine for centuries.
Contributed by Raju Patel and edited by Gilgi Hauser


Today’s western scientists also accept honey as a "Ram Ban" (very effective) medicine for all kinds of diseases without producing any side effects. Today, honey is produced in most of the countries of the world and is therefore available worldwide. Modern science maintains that although honey is sweet, if ingested in the right dosages as a medication, diabetic patients will also be able to intake it.


According to Ayurvedic medicine, a mixture of Honey and Cinnamon can be beneficial to  many  ailments and diseases and on 17th January 1995, ‘Weekly World News’ - Canada, published a list of ailments/diseases that can be helped / treated with a Honey/Cinnamon mixture. Some of the important details of that information are as below:

HEART DISEASES - Make a paste of honey and cinnamon powder, spread it on bread or chapatti instead of jelly and jam and eat it regularly for breakfast. This can help to reduce the cholesterol in the arteries and maybe reduce the possibility of a heart patient from suffering a heart attack. Patients, who have already suffered attacks, are also advised to ingest the honey/cinnamon mixture to ward off further attacks.


Regular use of the mixture relieves loss of breath and strengthens the heartbeat. In USA and Canada, various nursing homes have treated patients successfully and have found that due to increasing age, the arteries and veins, which lose their flexibility and become clogged, are revitalized.
 

ARTHRITIS - Mix one part honey to two parts of lukewarm water and add a small level teaspoon of cinnamon powder. Make a paste and massage slowly onto the itching area of the body. It has been found that the pain can recede within a minute or two.  Arthritic patients can also benefit from the daily intake morning and evening, of one cup of hot water with two spoons of honey and one small teaspoon of cinnamon powder mixed together. In a recent research program conducted at Copenhagen University, it was found that when the doctors treated their patients with a mixture of one tablespoon honey and half a teaspoon cinnamon powder before breakfast; within a week, out of 200 patients who underwent the treatment, 73 patients were relieved of pain, and within a month most of the patients who could not walk or who had limited mobility due to their arthritis, started walking without pain. 

HAIR LOSS - For people suffering from hair loss or baldness the following paste has been found to be effective: In warm olive oil, mix one tablespoon of honey, one teaspoon cinnamon powder, make a paste and apply before taking a bath. Leave on the scalp /hair for around 5 ―15 minutes, and then wash the hair.

 
BLADDER INFECTIONS - Stir two tablespoons of cinnamon powder and one teaspoon of honey in a glass of lukewarm water and ingest. This can destroy the bacteria in the bladder that are the cause of the infection.

TOOTHACHE  - Make a paste of one teaspoon of cinnamon powder and five teaspoons of honey and apply to the aching tooth. This may be applied 3 times a day until the tooth stops aching.

CHOLESTEROL - Two tablespoons of honey and three teaspoons of cinnamon powder mixed into 16 ounces of tea water, can aid in the reduction of cholesterol levels in the blood by 10% within a two hour period. As mentioned above for arthritic patients, if this mixture is ingested 3 times day, chronic cholesterol can be lowered. Pure honey, also ingested daily without cinnamon, taken together with food, is an aid in lowering cholesterol levels.
 

COLDS  - Those suffering from common or severe colds should take one tablespoon lukewarm honey mixed with 1/4 spoon cinnamon powder daily for 3 days. This will cure most chronic coughs, colds and clear the sinuses.


INFERTILITY - Yunani and Ayurvedic medicine have been using honey for thousands of years to strengthen the semen of men and improve impotence. Through the regular ingestion of two tablespoons of honey, prior to sleep, impotence can be greatly reduced. In China, Japan and Far-Eastern countries, women, who do not conceive and need to strengthen the uterus, have been taking cinnamon powder for centuries. Women, who are unable to conceive, may take a pinch of cinnamon powder in half teaspoon of honey and apply it on the gums frequently throughout the day, so that it slowly mixes with the saliva and can therefore enter the body.  There is a story about a couple in Maryland, USA who were unable to produce children for 14 years and had lost hope of having a child of their own. When told about the honey cinnamon mixture both the husband and wife started ingesting the mixture and the wife conceived after a few months, giving birth to healthy twins.
   
UPSET STOMACH - Honey taken with cinnamon powder cures stomachache and can also clear stomach ulcers.
 
GAS - According to studies done in India & Japan, honey, taken together with cinnamon powder can relieve the stomach of gas. 

IMMUNE SYSTEM - Daily use of honey and cinnamon powder strengthens the immune system and protects the body from bacteria and viral attacks. Scientists have found that honey has various vitamins and iron in large amounts. Constant use of honey strengthens the white blood corpuscles to fight bacteria and viral diseases.


INDIGESTION - Cinnamon powder sprinkled onto two tablespoons of honey taken before eating, relieves acidity and aids in the digestion of the heaviest of meals.


INFLUENZA - A scientist in Spain has proven that honey contains a natural ingredient,
 which kills influenza germs.


LONGEVITY - Tea made with honey and cinnamon powder, when taken regularly, arrests the ravages of old age. Take 4 spoons of honey, 1 spoon of cinnamon powder and 3 cups of water and boil as if making tea.  Drink 1/4 cup, 3 to 4 times a day. It keeps the skin fresh and soft and arrests old age. Life spans also increases and even a 100 year old, starts performing the chores of a 20-year-old.

 
PIMPLES - Make a paste from three tablespoons of honey and one teaspoon of cinnamon powder. Apply this paste on the pimples before sleep and wash it off the next morning with warm water. If applied daily for two weeks, the paste can remove pimples. 

 
SKIN INFECTIONS - Applying honey and cinnamon powder in equal parts on the affected parts can cure eczema, ringworm and all types of skin infections.

 
WEIGHT LOSS - Drink daily in the morning on an empty stomach, 1/2 hour before breakfast and at night before sleeping, a honey and cinnamon powder mixture boiled in one cup of water. If taken regularly, it is said to reduce the weight of even the most obese person. Also by drinking this mixture regularly, fat does not accumulate in the body even though the person maybe eating a high calorie diet.

CANCER - Recent research in Japan and Australia has reveled that advanced cancer of the stomach and bones have been cured successfully. Patients suffering from these kinds of cancer should take one tablespoon of honey with one teaspoon of cinnamon powder, 3 times a day for one month.


FATIGUE - Recent studies have shown that the sugar content of honey is more helpful than detrimental to the strength of the body. Senior citizens, who take honey and cinnamon power in equal parts, are more alert and flexible. Half a tablespoon of honey stirred into in a glass of water and sprinkled with cinnamon powder, taken daily n the afternoon at about 3.00PM when the vitality of the body starts to decrease, can help the body to have more  vitality within a week.


BAD BREATH - In order to maintain fresh breath throughout the day, the people of South America, gargle with one teaspoon of honey and cinnamon powder mixed in hot water first thing upon awakening. 

  
HEARING LOSS - Taken daily, morning and evening, honey and cinnamon powder taken in equal parts can restore hearing.